festive favourites…

Now.. I know the festive season is practically over now – in just a few days we have to take down all the trimmings and put the glittering lights and the sparkling decorations away for another year – but I said I’d do a festive favourite of the best crackers, stockings and wreaths.

Who knows, if you like any of them, you might be able to pick something up in the January sales and save them for next year!

FESTIVE FAVOURITE CRACKERS:

4249_1My family is one of those that goes crazy for board games over the Christmas period – so what more could you want than a board game IN a cracker to play after your Christmas Dinner? Cluedo is one of the classics, managing to make an appearance in my house many times, in three different forms: the classic board game, the super cluedo version, and the cluedo card game. I would not be upset to introduce a fourth way to play..

So, will it be Miss Scarlett? In the Dining Room? With the Spanner? You’ll only find out if you play…

(If Cluedo is not the game for you, it also comes in a Scrabble version and Monopoly)

FESTIVE FAVOURITE STOCKING:

normal_houseA lover of the good old Christmas jumper will appreciate a hand knitted stocking like this. Coming in four different colourways with the choice to have either the three kings, a snowman, a snowflake or – what I like to imagine is – a gingerbread house (as opposed to a normal house..) as shown above,  there is one to suit everyone. These stockings just want to be hung by a fireplace, and I don’t think there would be anyone upset to receive one of these full of presents.

FESTIVE FAVOURITE WREATH:

whisky500X703A homemade wreath! Ok.. I’m not suggesting you put mini bottles of spirits on your wreath – I just thought the tiny bottles were rather cute! This wreath is just the perfect example of something classic, mixed with something personal and rather different. The best way to get the best wreath is to make your own! Adorn it with mini baubles, or create a natural theme and use festive dried fruit and berries. Alternatively, go down a more ‘winter-wonderland’ route and spray some fake snow onto a wreath made of twigs. You can literally do anything with these! And if the traditional route is not the one you want to go down, check out these homemade paper wreaths made at Homemade London: http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=313943478632183&set=a.146683048691561.28164.143069925719540&type=1&theater

I hope you have all had a wonderful Christmas and enjoyed starting the New Year!

narrative & storytelling

I have a vast number of coats. I don’t quite know what the average number to own is, but I really don’t think it’s necessary to have too many. And I do have too many.

They are practical – they keep you warm, and generally last a long time – yet we insist on buying a new one each year. For some of us, this is because the seasons in fashion come and go, and with that, so do the latest trends. For others, it’s because our coats have genuinely been so worn, that they are actually in too much of a sorry state to continue wearing, and for others, it’s because we have simply grown out of them.

But what about those coats we keep despite any of the above-mentioned points? Why do we not get rid of them?

One of mine is possibly a little too short for me in the arms (I think it shrank in the wash..). It is also covered in little bobbles that I seem to pick off every time I wear it, which therefore means parts of it are patchy and very worn down. It also has a rip in the arm. This is not sounding very attractive is it?

So why have I kept it? And more importantly, why do I still wear it?

The simple answer: because it has too many stories attached to it, I just can’t let it go. I have had it for at least three years, it has been with me on many journeys – most memorable of all, my trip to New York. So many things about it just remind me of certain times in my life, and I’m not quite sure I’m ready to let it go.

It is evident from my blog that I am interested in nostalgia, but you might be thinking ‘hasn’t she written about this before? She’s just using a different example?’

Well.. there are countless examples of how nostalgia feeds into our lives and yes, this is one of them. But while I can come up with different ones all the time, there is still so much else to say on the subject of nostalgia – examples aside.

Stories. Narration. Storytelling. These help feed our need to cling onto memories. And objects.

There are huge numbers of places we can look for theories and studies on narrative structure – so many books and online journals and articles. I did a lot of research on this for my dissertation and found a simple narrative structure diagram perfectly depicting how a story travels and is spread between people in various ways from the author to the reader.

It is too complex to go into now – but if it interests you at all I’d urge you to look at a book called ‘Narrative Fiction: Contemporary Poetics’ by Shlomith Rimmon-Kenan.

In basic terms, it shows the effect of storytelling on all people involved and how what is said and what is heard, can be interpreted in different ways or using different words with the same outcome at the end.

What does this have to do with a coat? The link doesn’t seem obvious does it?

Stories are told about objects. They are attached to objects. When I tell people that my coat came with me to all these different places and I love it because it carries memories with it, a different meaning is then transferred to them about my coat. A coat that they have no connection to. They would then look at my coat and see not just a coat, but an object I am very fond of because it has real meaning to me.

This is better explained when you use an item of furniture for example. Something that has been passed down through the family and something that holds real meaning to everyone within the family. As it is passed down, stories will be passed on – about how that scratch got there, or why the leg of this chair had to be replaced, or any funny antics about the past owners – and suddenly, we go from being the ‘readers’ of a story, to the ‘narrators’. We adopt a further passion for something we know has a story attached to it – even if that story or event happened in a time before we were alive.

Yes, for me it might be a story or two attached to an item of clothing – but I wonder how many of those stories I can pass on to people about just a coat?  And how many of those people might tell the story in the future?

You never know what will become important and personal to people in the future – so be attached to objects, and spread the stories you have of each item. It might really mean something to someone one day…

narrative fiction